When The Going Gets Tough…

Most of the time, it’s easy for me to know that I lead a wonderful life and am incredibly blessed. But sometimes, just like everyone else, I get in a funk when life takes a tailspin. The combination of a lot of little things and a few big things have literally felt like a downward spiral that makes me want to run into a dark cave and hide until the invevitable upswing HAS to happen.

Oh hey, cave. It's me, Meghan.

But, since the world keeps on spinning and I don’t have any mysterious caves just around the corner, I’ve had to face this like everyone else. Luckily, I have the most wonderful friends who put up with the various emotions that are associated with a bad day, week, month… When I’ve been angry and frustrated or when I’ve been a complete mess and shed some tears, they have been there with positive thoughts, prayers, advice and support.

And so, this is an ode to my friends, nuts and otherwise, you are all the little rays of sunshine that make life a bit more bearable when it seems like it’s spinning out of control. Here are a few of my favourite movie moments that show just how great girlfriends can be…

Sex and the City
While I’m nowehere near the point in life where motherhood woes are beating me down, the fact that Miranda encourages Charlotte with “sips” is just too perfect. From experience, sometimes a little tequila is all you need…


The Babysitters Club Movie

This blast from the past is exactly how I feel about my friends. When the world is dumping on you, whether metaphorically or literally like the rain storm in this scene, sometimes you just need to be rescued by your friends.


Now and Then

And sometimes, you just need your friends to help you kick some ass!


Thelma & Louise

And well, let’s hope that I never go so far off the deep end that the deep end is a canyon. But, the best part about my friends is that I know if I had to, they’d all be ready to ride shotgun…in a nutshell.

All I Want for Christmas…

You know when you’re spending a sunny Saturday morning with your best friends, chatting, sipping coffee, laughing uncontrollably, sauntering around, linking arms, and sometimes, posing on a bench..? Don’t you sometimes wish you had your own photographer capturing every moment of your palpable adoration for each other? We certainly do. And this past Saturday, on a perfect, clear winter day in Ottawa, we were lucky enough to have photographer Susan Ganas take some shots of us.

As we gobbled on out-of-this-world scone bacon/cheddar melts, sipped bold coffees at The Scone Witch, and strolled down wreath-adorned Sparks Street, we got some great shots of the five nuts who put their hearts and souls into this very blog.

We had spent the previous evening preparing a few Holiday posts (stay tuned!), watching the perfect Christmas movie, Bridget Jones’ Diary, topping off a box wine (nothing but the best.) and lulling ourselves to sleep with Bailey’s on ice.

People always say that the Holidays are the time for family, and we will all be at our homes come Christmas of course, but it’s important to find some time for the girlfriends who will always have your back too. After all, who’s to say we aren’t family? …in a nutshell. 

+ see our new About Us photo here :)

All photos by Susan Ganas (@shirpasue) – Thank you again Susan for your kindness!

Pet Peeve of the Week

Subject: Popped Collars

This past week, we had the pleasure of having a guest-post written by one of the most fabulous and fashionable men I know, Simon Puckett. Simon addressed the “What Not To Wear” items for men, and we couldn’t be more on board. There is nothing more attractive than a well-dressed man! However, Simon has graciously left out one male fashion “don’t” …because it is my pet peeve.

A few years back, a video surfaced that humorously spoofed the guido lifestyle. “My New Haircut” went viral, mocking the “douche-baggery” that comes along with obsessive working out, aggressive use of hair gel and (cue gasp) the popping of one’s collar.


Unfortunately, the popped collar didn’t stop with the guidos. It spread like the plague, infecting preppy men across North America. As I mentioned, this video went viral a few years ago and so, the popped collar came under massive scrutiny. At that point, I thought, I hoped and I prayed that the popped collar had seen its last day.

Just two of many informational posters that warn against the dangers of the Pop.

Well folks, I was wrong. The popped collar has shown serious staying power, even infecting my own boyfriend. A polo shirt is actually one of my favourite looks on him and for a year and I half I’ve stayed silent. I have even folded his polos with the collar facing up (so as not to disturb the starch needed for a proper pop). But NO MORE I tell you!

An example of how I folded these shirts to preserve the Pop.

Girls, please take charge if your boyfriend is still sporting a popped collar. Don’t let the happiness that the pop brings him deter you from your mission to combat this stupid style. Don’t make my mistake and wait until his Birthday to finally say NO MORE!* Fold down that bad-boy and bask in the glory that is your man, un-popped.

Shaun, showing off his mood Pre- and Post-Popped.

 *Special thanks to my boyfriend Shaun for being my model and putting up with my antics on his Birthday. There are a million things I love about you, but your popped collar is definitely NOT one of them.

Salsa, Arriba!

There are many things I love in life. Two come to mind in regards to this specific topic though, and let me tell you they are high up on my list of loves. They are hosting people, and all things Mexican. I love Mexican food. I love my friends. I love combining my loves, and having friends over to eat Mexican food. In a perfect world, my days would consist of lots of time with my best friends, and my nights? Bathing in a mound of Lone Star chips and salsa. Ok, maybe not bathing (inevitable spikes and spices in all the wrong places). But let’s just contextualize this with one of our combined favourite movies – Wedding Crashers. Remember Vince Vaughn’s rant about how much he loves maple syrup and finds multiple uses for it? You get the point. Replace that with sweet, garlicky salsa.

Move over, Charo.

 So, naturally, when the Ottawa chapter of the nutshell girls and I decided to align our schedules for a night of vino, snacks and chats at my apartment – I thought it would be wonderful to make a special batch of homemade salsa for my little chickitas to try. At the end of the day, when making salsa you must remember the world really is your oyster. I highly suggest finding a recipe that looks pleasing to you, and tweaking it throughout the process to make it just right, and just yours. Here is a ballpark recipe for what I chose to add to my salsa for my little ladies to savour.

1. When it comes to the tomato base of your salsa, it’s really up to you and what kind of consistency you prefer. I like mine partly chunky, as opposed to pureed, so I bought two cans of Unico diced tomatos. If I had the time or energy I would have chopped fresh tomatoes from the vine - but time is a luxury when hungry little nuts are about to ring your doorbell in one hour.

2. In my salsa, I chose to add red onion, plenty of garlic, a touch of cilantro, lime juice, jalapeno, salt/pepper, cumin and diced mango.

3. Pour your diced tomatoes into a mixing bowl, and mush them around until you get the proper consistency for your batch. Once you’ve done that, drain the extra juice into the sink while holding back the chunks with a large mixing spoon. As you continue to mix and add lime juice, you’ll need to drain more out throughout the process to avoid a watery snack.

4. Dice about 1/2 a cup (or more) of red onions. Toss them in.

5. Dice 2 small cloves of garlic. Throw them on in.

6. Cut your jalapeno the long way, and de-seed the whole thing – if you plan on adding the spicy element. (I consider this essential). I discovered I probably could have added some more, after my taste-testers decided they were “wild” not “mild” salsa eaters. Dice it all up and throw it into the mix. Keep stirring throughout the process.

So far...

7. Depending on your audience – half of the population likes it, half doesn’t – chop 1/4 of a cup of cilantro into very small pieces. Throw ‘er on in.

Be very careful with how much you add!

8. Dice up 1/2 or a whole mango (in my case) into tiny, tiny cubes. Toss those in.

9. Now, for the finishing touches. Squirt in, at your own discretion, your lime juice. I added about 2 tablespoons of the liquid to give it that special tang. Then add salt and pepper to your taste. Sprinkle just a smidge of cumin in. If you find it’s a little spicy or tangy, feel free to add a touch of sugar to soften the mix.

10. Give the batch one big stir, and boom-bada-bing-bada-boom – Hola delicious Mexican snack! For the carb-conscious gals dipping into salsa out there, cut some jicama (a root veggie known as the “Mexican Turnip”) into strips and roast it with some pepper and olive oil. Or, slice some cucumber the long way and use that as your dipping tool. Otherwise, whip out the tortilla chips and you’ve got yourself a party, in a nutshell. Bon appetit!

YUM